The Biggest Mistake You Are Making In Your Messaging
The fastest way to lose a potential client? Talk about yourself.
June 5, 2025
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A beautifully designed website means nothing if the message misses the mark.
One of the most common (and costly) mistakes we see professional service firms make? Writing their messaging entirely about themselves. Their firm. Their credentials. Their years of experience.
Here’s the truth:
Clients don’t hire you because of your résumé, they hire you because you understand their problems and can solve them. And they can quickly and clearly understand how working with you will make their lives better.
The Shift You Need to Make
Your messaging shouldn’t center on you, it should center on your clients.
When you speak directly to their needs, their pain points, their goals, you do three critical things:
1. Create Clarity
People buy when they understand. Messaging that mirrors your client’s internal dialogue is what makes them say, “Yes, this is exactly what I need.” Generic or self-focused messaging makes them disengaged, and quickly.
2. Stand Out Instantly
Most of your competitors are still talking about themselves. By flipping the script and focusing on your client, you cut through the noise and create meaningful differentiation.
3. Build Real Trust
When clients feel seen and understood, trust builds quickly. That emotional connection is often what drives someone to reach out or refer you.
The Right Balance
This doesn’t mean you never talk about your expertise.
It means you lead with empathy and clarity, then use your background to reinforce credibility. Talk about your experience in the context of how it helps them.
Let them be the hero of the story. You’re the guide, the expert, the strategic partner who helps them get where they want to go.
How to Shift Your Messaging Today
- Identify Their Pain Points: What are they struggling with? What questions are they asking?
- Rewrite Your Messaging: Speak to those challenges. Use language that reflects their reality.
- Show, Don’t Just Tell: Use client examples, case studies, and testimonials to make your message more relatable and trustworthy.
Most firms don’t have a messaging problem, they have a focus problem.
Refocus your message around your clients, and everything else, conversion, referrals, loyalty, gets easier.